The art of face to face conversation is quickly

While we as men get turned on by visual stimuli (think swimsuits and strippers), women get aroused more from their emotions and it is conversation that will really be able to generate that emotional response that you need in order to get her turned on. If you really want to get your social life in gear and you want to be the kind of man that women want to be with intimately, then you NEED to learn how to use conversation as a way to get her turned on. You have to know what to say to women and how to say it. Here are 3 tips on what to say to women that will help you kick things off: 1) Pay her a compliment, but be sure that she is worthy of it. Don't tell her something that she will know is pretty far fetched. That makes the compliment basically worthless and won't do a thing to get her turned on. What will work is to take something that you know most men won't compliment her on and use that. For example, if you notice that a woman seems to have on a lot of one color, you can assume that this is probably one of her favorite colors. Tell her that it looks very nice on her, and be sure to mention that color. Example of what to say to a woman: You are out on the street and you pass by a woman wearing a lot of purple. You assume that this is a color that she is particularly fond of and you say something like, 'Hey, I just wanted to say that purple works really well on you. Some women can't pull it off, but you can.' 2) Pick out a body part that is not usually thought of as being 'sexual' and give her a compliment on that. Women get used to and actually dread hearing things about the more sexually suggestive body parts. Yeah, there are some that don't mind it, but on the off chance that you come across one who does, that is not where you want to go with this. A pretty safe body part to use is the eyes. There is a lot to be said about noticing a woman's eye color and making a comment on that. Example of what to say to a woman: You are face to face with a woman and you notice that her eyes are brown, but not the normal shade of brown that you are used to seeing. You say something like, 'Your eyes are an interesting shade of brown. Not what I am used to seeing. I kind of like that.' 3) Compliment her on her choice of literature. This works better if you are in a busy area with a lot of 'street traffic.' When in these kinds of situations, it's not uncommon to see a woman walking by holding a book or a newspaper and that is something that most men are not going to compliment her on. Use that to begin a longer conversation with her,. Example of what to say to a woman: You are walking by a woman and you notice that she is clutching a copy of the Wall Street Journal. You comment on that with something like 'I see you have the Wall Street Journal with you. Into business are you? I like that.' These kinds of examples of what to say to women work well because they are not what most other guys are going to focus on. It seems less like you are just another guy with a cheesy line and more like you actually have genuine interest in her. And it adds a little depth to your character on first impression. These are the kinds of things that will evoke the right emotions to help her get turned on by you. As you can see, none of the examples are overtly sexual.